Self Love

Self love is KING. With it there is no need to hate on anyone else or to participate with those who choose to hate on you. Women, by nature are nurtures but we can also be a mess if we do not keep our attitudes in check. We tend to want to give our all to others, like kids, job, family but leave very little, if anything, for ourselves, in essence, putting ourselves on the back burner. The problem is that the back burner never gets turned on and love for ourselves and motivation for our goals never get the heat they deserve to cook like they should. What I believe has a bearing on this and our goal achievement, possibly our life achievements in general, is that we seem to miss loving ourselves. Since we are all made in God’s image and the bible says God is love, then should we not evenly distribute our love to include self? We’re made in HIS image. What happened?

Loving yourself is a key component to positive self esteem, self respect, and goal achievement. Keep it positive. Keep yourself motivated. And, keep it moving. You can only muster the energy it takes to do this if you love yourself. That means that you do not get yourself caught up in the negativity of others. It will be your downfall. Some people always have something to say and they are usually not happy unless that something is negative. The greened eyed monster they are working with should have no place in your life. Realize that those are their issues. You do not have to make them yours. There is no need to participate!

It is a special person that decides it is time to delete negativity, of all forms, and get inspired to build that undying self love that leads you to planning along with, achieving your ideal level of success; your life’s goals; your level of peace.

Another key component to attaining self love is forgiveness. Though you are not participating in the negativity. It may have rubbed you raw but you have to find the strength to forgive and keep it moving. FORGIVENESS is imperative and one of the major steps in achieving the status of self love needed to fuel our motivation. Again, YOU MUST be forgiving. Holding a grudge does nothing to the person you’re begrudging but can affect you physically and/or mentally. It is not worth it and nine times out of ten neither or they. You cannot control the stupidity of others but you CAN control whether or not you are willing to participate. There is no need to participate!

While walking your road to self love, motivation and goal achievement, be sure to continually reflect on your accomplishments. Each step you take is an accomplishment and each stride that much more so. You may be surprised to realize that the stress, anxiety, and fears you were once faced with, have melted away and your goals are being achieved, possibly more quickly than you anticipated.